As a Sifu, it’s easy to get discouraged. Students skip class, commitments waver, and it’s not uncommon to see some people often more interested in everything but training. When attendance is low, when the room feels empty, a question creeps in: Is this really worth it?
Imagine a small club, a humble training space. Class is scheduled, but only one student shows up.
At that moment, there are two ways to see it. We can focus on those who aren’t there—the absences, the inconsistency, that sometimes occur because of lack of commitment, sometimes for more valid reasons. Or, we can focus on the one who is there.
And that choice matters.
Because it isn’t fair to the student who showed up if we let those who skipped weigh heavier on our hearts than him. It isn’t fair to let disappointment overshadow his effort. His presence should never feel like a consolation prize.
I won’t pretend this is easy. Every Sifu wants a thriving school, full classes, an energized atmosphere. But prosperity isn’t just about numbers—it’s about impact. Maybe we don’t have dozens of students, but we have that one student giving everything he’s got. And if we pour our effort into that one, if we guide, refine, and shape them, we can change a life.
No one wants to feel like their presence matters less than those who didn’t show up. So why would we make our students feel that way?
On the brighter side, One-on-one, we can cover details that are sometimes lost in a crowded room. We can refine technique, sharpen awareness, and forge a deeper understanding. A single student’s progress, when fully nurtured, is worth more than a room full of half-committed ones.
And as Sifus, we have to lead by example. We expect consistency from our students, but can we remain consistent when the paradigm shifts? Can we stand firm in our purpose, even when the room is almost empty?
If we can, then we understand the truth—one is enough.